I ended up attending the wedding and it was pretty awesome. I only knew 4 people there but everyone was cool and talked to me. That doesn't always happen when I'm in a group of strangers but it ended up working very well this time. You can go to Mary's blog(s) on facebook to find out about the actual wedding. Maybe I'll post a blog about it later. Look up my flickr page for pics.
The next day, Mary came with me to Ben and Amber's to hang out with more Cornell people. I just hoped to have lunch or dinner with her one day. I love it when you take a chance (i.e. going to a wedding with a lot of people you don't know) and it ends up paying off beautifully. I hadn't talked to Mary in person or on the phone for years before this past week. And look how much better friends we are now because of what transpired. Love it.